Something Felt Off

I began to suspect something was amiss when I saw some strange posts on 2FB's Facebook and Instagram.  We were not friends on any social media, but she was connected to my daughter so I happened to see a couple of her posts.  Here's one post on her Facebook account under her married name, Cher V. Lapid:

This post by Cher Lapid was clearly aimed at me.  I was the only girlfriend that BD had before 2FB.  We were each other's firsts, so this post smelled 99.99% about me and my letters to BD.  By the way, if you guys have not figured it out by now, I love to write.  I wrote down my feelings a lot.  I thought there was no better way to wade through my emotions than to first start writing them down, so thinking that these letters that she was making fun of were mine, was not a long shot.

The post was mean-spirited and disrespectful of my past with her husband.  How would she feel if her letters to an ex was made a source of fun and cheap laugh/entertainment?  This was insensitive and immature of her,  so what did I do?  Nothing.  I let it slide.

She continued on with her many snide social media posts, like the one below on Instagram via her old handle, herroyalhighnesscher:

I know I'm not pretty by your standards 2FB, but at least I'm not GGSS like you.

Again, I was the only ex of her hubby, so this post clearly meant I was too ugly for BD.  So what did I do?  Nothing.  I let it slide.

I did not want to make waves nor rock the boat so to speak, and destabilize my daughter's support system.  The way I look at it, as long as 2FB was directing her snide and scathing remarks towards me, I was fine.  Her behavior said so much about her condition and state of mind, it had nothing to do with me, so why bother addressing it?

Let's assume for a minute that I wasn't BD's only ex and these posts were not about me.  Perhaps there was someone else after me and before 2FB, a relationship that I didn't know about.  It's not like I kept tabs of BD's love life after we broke up, so it's possible.  Be that as it may, a mature woman who feels secure in her marriage would not bring up her husband's ex in a deprecating manner.

The need to voice out her incessant opinions of the past clearly showed that she had not moved on and continued to be insecure of her position as BD's wife.  This was not my problem.  This was something that she needed to address with BD so he could make her feel secure, loved and cared for, that way she wouldn't feel the need to disparage her husband's ex to make herself feel better.

Meanwhile, I live a happy, fulfilled and comfortable life -- both personally and professionally.  So really, what good would it do confronting an immature, insecure, unhappy character?